All have heard of this, love at first sight. Still remains a mystery for me. Love is the union of two hearts which does never happen on the first sight, for me and any other rational human being at-least. The first sight you want her, doesn't that mean lust more than love. Let it be, each brain is different, that way each heart and mind too can be… I care so neither, should you. So be irrational and fall at first sight into the bigger plight. May be god has given you a match faster, we all know of ready-made clothes, she is the ready-made soul-mate whom you don’t have to understand or know, it was already done by god… Wierddddd
So I can give you three stages in the so called attraction between sexes, or among sexes as it is legal nowadays. I ain't against it neither am I for it, let me be a spectator because that’s the best thing I can do. Rhymeeeee niceeeeeeeee.
Coming into the three stages of attraction, they are as below
Lust – Craving for the union of two bodies
Love – Union of two hearts and minds
Devotion – Unity of Souls
Lust is when you want that one. Physical or hormonal attraction when your testosterone levels are high or the alcohol is too high for rational thought, like at first sight. All you wanna do is bang bang, but please don’t call this love. Call it infatuation. And losers, you deserve better or don’t deserve them as you got turned down. STOP being the Bitchhhh….
Love is as you all know you need someone and they know it. Love them for their flaws more than their perfections. People write books about these so I am not that eligible to write about Love.
Devotion – Highest form of love, unity of Souls… Much at the spiritual level… Build a temple for her, if you can’t bear the expenses then do it at-least in your mind and heart… Your soul is with hers, this is something you ought to feel if you are really in a Once in a Lifetime Love. Being the unluckily lot of the present era, most of us don’t get the opportunity for this. Your prayer to god is above Lust and Love because it is devotion. Not just complete faith in body or materials but offering of your souls to him. Devote yourself to your loved one, that’s the highest form of Love anyone can go through.
I might get this chance, you might get this chance. Just time shows the real way at the end. Until then adios!